Sometimes it’s the softest touch that hits the hardest. This little video is worth watching several times. (It’s more compelling if you mute the audio.) In one minute, we see five stories about the power of softness. If we want to help vulnerable people, we need to become vulnerable ourselves.
It is a sign of the times, however, that spiritual messages like the power of softness are being co-opted by commercial interests. That the sale and consumption of artificial “bread” is somehow contributing to the restoration of authentic human relationships. Hmmm.
Here’s another great example of how the arts contribute to community mental health. The arts heighten and intensify the human sensory experience, and remind us that ife isn’t so bleak after all!
The Expressive Arts Program at Camphill features the work of a group of women who have experienced isolation and who have been exploring new horizons together. We can learn much from projects like this!
Here is a poster about the Exhibit in Barrie on the afternoon of March 27. Supported by the Canadian Mental Health Foundation and the Ontario Trillium Foundation.
Autism continues to be a serious problem in many families. Parents are being told, there’s nothing you can do – all your loving concern and attention simply won’t make any difference. The only solution, it seems, is a one-way ticket to an institution. Good-bye, loved ones.
Every now and then, however, a story comes along that gives hope. (See link below.) Like many other examples posted on this blog, the secret seems to be in re-imagining relationships – meeting people who are different, and learning and growing together. There is no “silver bullet,” but patient interest – and attention to what is actually happening in the moment – can make all the difference.
There is a widespread belief that aging is a process of decline, a disease, a bad thing. Participants in the Shadowpath Conversation Café at Hesperus are having a different experience. They are learning about creative elders who are saving the best for last.
For example, Shishir Lakhani will be in the hotseat on March 11. Details and registration here. (He was originally scheduled to appear on an earlier date.) Shishir is a retired entrepreneur who has spent the last ten years being a tireless advocate for the Heart And Stroke Foundation (see earlier post.) At a meeting of the Richmond Hill Historical Society, he described how the single-minded focus that is often necessary for success in a business career can have adverse effects on personal health and well-being.
Shishir’s discussion of spiritual opportunity cost really caught my attention. The relentless attention paid to external goals can undermine personal health and inner development. The business mission is etched into a person’s very being, and obscures any signals that call for a course adjustment.
In his book Phases, Dutch physician Bernard Lievegoed makes a similar case. He explains why aging is nothing to be feared, particularly if you have been spiritually active in the earlier phases of life. He describes the existential crisis that hits people who have done nothing else but chase personal success, pushing aside everything that might interfere with his career… Such people are less able to cope with the biological symptoms of aging, and are prone to much suffering as they get older.
So we’re very grateful that Shadowpath is hosting the Conversation Cafés at Hesperus. Much more than fireside chats – they are kindling new fires!
The purpose of life is to have a purpose. – Shishir Lakhani
In my previous post, I wrote about the Conversation Café at Hesperus Village. The Shadowpath team is doing a great job of bringing together creative elders from around the community and stirring the pot.
The first ingredient at the next event on Sunday February 18 is Shishir Lakhani, B.Sc. PQS DTM:
Actively retired and gratefully giving back, Shishir believes that the purpose of life is to have a life of purpose. Born in Africa (of Indian heritage), educated in England, Shishir has made a fulfilling life in Canada. Shishir has an extensive business background of over 30 years.
I’m sure that Shishir will bring lots of spice to the conversation, so come along and taste it!
Psychiatrists are highly trained specialists who play an important role in our healthcare system. Unfortunately, they sometimes hyper-focus on the technical aspects of their art, and lose touch with the human side.
Costas Tirovolas was a psychiatrist who understood this. His wife recently wrote a short piece in the Globe, describing how he always brought a human touch to his work. Although not a patient man, he learned to slow down and listen. A diverse range of interests – from Bach and Greek language studies thorough to fast cars – ensured that his life was not only about work.
In other words, by taking care of his own mental health, he was able to help others.
My mind has such wonderful qualities, and I am just beginning to feel its potential. Yet when I reflect on the images given to us by neuroscience, I am perplexed. The language of neuroscience seems totally inadequate to describe what I actually experience. I realize that the images are generated using actual data, and yet they do not co-relate in any obvious way with my own internal experiences.
The difficulty becomes even more pronounced when I experience poetry or art. The gestures and forms of my mental activity in no way relate to the spidery motifs that propagate in neuroscience imagery. Anyone who pays even cursory attention to to their own inner life will readily make the same observation.
Or will they? Are people beginning to believe that the images generated by neuroscientists are actually pictures of the brain and its activity? Will they lose interest in the unique qualities of their own thinking, and focus instead on the optimization of synapses and neural pathways?
The late Ursula Franklin, writing about cultural conformity, put it this way:
The technology of an activity defines the activity itself, and in so doing excludes the emergence of alternatives.